Friday, May 22, 2009

Relationship: live it or leave it

So finally i’m writing my first post on my blog. its about relationships. well,i was inspired from the movie KANK to write this post. there are various relationships. but my focus is on the beautiful relation dat exists between a boy n a girl or between a man n a woman. Its love affair or marriage. any person can handle the bright side of this relation. But what about the dark side. Sometimes i wonder dat why u feel neglected in a relationship? why u still feel alone when u r in a crowd? why ur parter appears to be a headache n someone else a charm? and why u cross all boundaries which are not meant to be crossed?

I found myself in a confused situation to answer these questions. but ,later on realised that its absence of luv or understanding which can lead to such worst circumstances. After all, there is a respect in a relationship for each other.when this respect is lost, its not worth to stay in such a relationship. but when the same luv you find in a third person, u feel on the top of the world. u r just dragged towards him/her without thinking dat u r betraying someone.in place of betraying,its better to leave the relation cos every relation demands commitment and no one is a slave to bear betrayal’s tears.

But apart from betrayal, there is also another remedy to this. you can always sort out. i think this is the toughest thing to do cos it requires valour n u have to fight ur ego, pride, anger etc. for this. i always feel how can u break a relation which was started with such a gr8 bond of luv,understanding and respect? how can u forget those wonderful moments spent with ur partner? How can discard those memorable belongings of ur partner? Why can’t u give ur best to save the drowning relationship? but these steps can work out if u still feel something for her/him. this something can be care for him/her. i feel it is easy to start and easy to end but very difficult to start once its ended. but still if u r unable to tie up, then strictly leave it n move forward with never looking back.

After all , a relationship is meant to be lived and if u cant then just leave it !!!