Pyar, Ishq aur Mohabbat !!!!

From past few days I was observing some of the people around me and their love life. And after much thought process I derived some of the astonishing conclusions which might not be true according to you. To begin with I have a friend called A and he is with me in Mumbai. He had various girl friends before and presently also he has one. But when I asked him about marriage his reply was “shaadi to mom ki marzi se hi hogi”. And that forced me to think is love a game of enjoyment played before marriage? I mean how can you spend your time, energy and emotions with a person who you think is not going to stay with you for a long time. Here I want to quote a dialogue from KANK in which SRK says to rani “Mohabbat ke zamane guzar gaye janab, ab chhote mote pyar se hi kaam chala lijiye aap”. So love is time pass or mere enjoyment. Another friend A in Delhi is in love, as he says, with P. But he is always fascinated by his old female friends and even goes to meet them. As I asked him why you do that, his answer was really interesting. He said “Deepesh, there is always a girl in your life for whom you want to avoid your true love, may be for few moments”. On this firstly I was stunned but later on agreed as I too have done this once or twice. After all men are dogs. They are never satisfied with one true love. They are always fascinated by passing by fancies.
Next comes my friend K who did love marriage by going against her parents. But today after 3 years of marriage, she says there is no compatibility between them. On this my persuasions asks me that is love so fickle that it can’t last for whole life? If you are not able to tolerate each other even in initial phase of marriage then how would you be united when more responsibilities will be there. In such cases it’s better to finish it off. But still it’s not easy to face that trauma of divorce and break up.
At last, the finger turns to me since I’m in a relationship from past four years. On this I want to say that you have no right to destroy someone’s life and also you should not give this right to others to do the same for you. I personally feel that love demands commitment and it’s all about care. The more you care more the bond will get stronger. And if still nothing works well, then trust the words “marriages are made in heaven” and “someone, somewhere is made for you”. You will have that lucky one with you may be today or tomorrow. I think I’m sounding much filmy so I should shut my mouth....

"Hum khush hai" says SRK in KANK :)

By looking at the title you must have guessed that I'm happy now days. And I'm glad that I'm happy at the time of writing this post, otherwise you would have again encountered a gloomy post. The reasons for my happiness are:

1. Firstly, it's a weekend and we don't have any hectic schedule today and can plan for some outing. But it might not be feasible because people have committee interviews in the evening and me too.

2. Secondly, my mom is going Gujarat to my dad's place and no more she will be living alone. As my dad works in BOB and he is posted there so mom was living alone at our home. After all there's no point of living alone as now I'm in Mumbai and my sisters are also married.

3. Thirdly, everything is quite chill here in Nitie. Pressure of studies is less as compared to other B-schools. So, I always get time to rest. You may call it just like FMS.

4. At last but not at least, I'm always in touch with my old friends. Initially I thought that my all college friends will be left back and there may not be any contact as all will get busy in jobs, higher education etc. But now days, I always talk to my old friends through gtalk, phone etc. Few days back N, P and Panks called me. It felt so good as I also have people who misses me. I also talked to V1 and also chatted with V2. H and B are always online. So the feeling of missing NSIT friends has gone. But I still miss NSIT :(. Whenever I'm in the gloomy mood of missing NSIT, I always sing the song from Yaadein " nagme hai, shikve hai, kisse hai, baatein hai.Baatein bhool jati hai, yaadein yaad aati hai.Yeh yaadein kisi dilo janam ke chale jane ke baad aati hai. yaadein...yaadein"

Enjoying Extreme...

I am inspired to write this post from the weather around me in Mumbai. As we all know that there are lot of rains in Mumbai as usual. This is june going on, the month in which I use to sweat like hell with all coolers, ACs and what not.This is the month which is not only hated by me but by the entire north India. It is the hottest month of the year. But this time I'm enjoying it-thanks to Mumbai. Monsoon has arrived here on time and it's raining here since last 1 week. I haven't seen Mr. Sun since then. Now it has become my habit to keep umbrella in my bag when i leave for the classes daily. Another good thing is that when if it's not raining then it's cool breeze which is always there and soothes you.

On the other hand, most of the regions in India are facing scarcity of rainfall. Regions like UP, Haryana, Punjab and Delhi are facing summers in its extreme face where it's declared that only 93% rains will be there as compared to last year. I heard from my friends and loved ones that there are 8-10 hrs power cut and no rains. Certain state governments have urged to their citizens to not to use ACs in the workplace and at home so that power can be made available to all. I'm not interested in telling you any weather forecast for entire India. But the same conditions i faced till last year when i was vigorously gearing up for CAT.

So i want to pray to God for rains in entire India since my friends and loved ones stay in those rainfall deficit regions. And above all, many homes are dependent on monsoon in thousands of villages of India. On this ocassion, i want to recall the song from Lagaan which all of us should sing "kale megha kale megha paani to barsao.bijuri ki talwar nahin boondo ke baan chalao". And for Mumbaikars there's a song from The Weather Girls "It's raining men , Hallejulah". Enjoy !!!!

:)

Fun is in getting tired....

So i'm back after a long time.but not with a bang but with a tired face.Finally i reached one of the happening B-schools of India.Really i'm not boasting just because i'm the part of it but because it's true.
So i reached Nitie on 18th morning after a tiring journey and as soon as i reached i got accomodation in the hostel room. After that i got my documents verified and came back to room because it was stated that all 1st years have to report at sports complex sharp @ 6pm for formal induction programme. I was sure that this is going to be really gruelling so i slept before that to get prepared.At 6pm we reached the venue where there were faculty and seniors.Firstly faculty members gave a nice speech which was really inspiring and motivating.After that faculty members left and then started the real fun.Seniors called some of the juniors one by one and asked them to introduce themselves and also give their USP and if they were not able to give then they were asked to do pole dance with real pole made to stand in between.It was fun. After that we played a game again which was in various groups. And finally we got free @12.30am with a assingnment to be submitted till 7am.So we as a group did the job and completed it @ 2.45am and slept @ 3.30am. In all these chain of events i was too tired but was enjoying also.
The next day we were supposed to gather at ppo road @ 7.30am. PPO road has its own story behind this name but for the time being ppo is pre placement offer.Then we had attendance and we were taken for a campus tour which was again fun.After that we gathered @ 10am in sports complex and where faculty members had planned a whole day schedule for us.It was like we were suppose to present a skit,play,song etc. anything on managerial traits.We were divided into groups of 30 and it went till the evening. First time i too participated in a skit though forcefully.But i enjoyed each moment.After all the performances best performance was declared by the faculty and was awarded perk chocolates.And we got shocked when our group was declared the winner.Don't know how it happened.But finally "jo jeeta wohi hi sikandar".Then we had a break and we came back @ 6pm for another round of gruelling fun process.
This time there were seniors who asked us to present a play or skit depending upon the topics given which contained bit double meanings.So here also each group showed their extent of thinking in deriving double meanings.But here i was not in winning team :(
At around 10pm we were asked to play another game which again lasted for around 2 hours.Finally we left @ 12am from whole day of fun and frolic with a case study assignment and till now i'm free thats why i got time for blogging .But whole agenda behind this induction programme is to know each other in the batch.So i should leave now for next gruelling session in the afternoon.But i'm sure that these 2 years of mba @ NITIE are going to be big fun.........

Silsila and KANK

On last official day of our college Panks gifted me two movies KANK which is my favourite and silsila which is also a nice movie. I watched them again at home with my family since they were gifted by best friend :).

KANK and silsila share the same story with different base. In KANK, a post marital affair happens between dev(srk) and maya(rani m) due to some misunderstanding with thier respective partners. When rhea(priety z) and rishi(abhishek B) come to know about their affair, they just break the marriage and then dev and maya unknowingly live apart. But in the end they both get reunited by the help of rhea and rishi.

Well, in silsila Amit(AB) marries shobha(jaya B) after his brother's(shashi kapoor) death. This happens because shobha gets pregnant due to his brother and to save her's name in the society. But after marriage, Amit encounters his early love chandni(rekha) and then starts their post marital relationship.

KANK is mainly about the non tolerance of victims of post marital affair and how they leave the culprits to solitude as their punishment. But in silsila, a silent and charming wife shobha tolerates betrayal of his husband thinking his true love will return back to her.

KANK also gives a message "Love doesn't care about any barriers" as AB in the movie says "maut aur mohabbat dono bin bulaye mehmaan hai, wo kisi ka saath nahi chhodte". And also AB's another dialogue in which he says "waqt ka matlab hota hai ab.pyar karna hai to ab.mafi maangna hai to ab.haath pakadna hai to ab.varna barso baad tum meri tarah hi kisi party mei apne khoye hue pyar se maafi mangte nazar aaonge". I really love these two dialogues.

I really love KANK all because of its story, music, dialogues and above all my favourite star SRK. But I can't Figure out why people don't like KANK. But i Love it and panks too :).

Delhi was fun.now it's Mumbai's turn...

So this is my final post being in Delhi for now. First of all cheers to Delhi which gave me my career. Well, my 4 years in Delhi are over and finally I’ll be going Mumbai. I know this is not the end of my Delhi days because i may get a job in Delhi but I’m still sad since I’m in love with Delhi. Sometimes I sing that song from delhi-6 “yeh delhi hai mere yaar, bas ishq mohabbat pyar” and I think that it's true with me.

Another reason due to which I love Delhi is that it’s close to my home place. Had real fun in all these 4 years. Whether it is ansal plaza or city square mall; cp or dwarka sec4,6; iitd’s rendezvous or LHMC fest; India gate or lajpat nagar; new delhi station or airport; dc or pitampura; and at last but not atleast NSIT or DCE; had masti everywhere. Well, I’m not trying to show that I know each and every corner of Delhi but I did nothing in these 4 years except roaming here and there.

But since I’m going now it’s like leaving my home place. But at the same time I’m happy too that I’m going another nice place- Mumbai or bollywood or mayanagri (as S said today in lab). I’m really excited. I have big plans for Mumbai but also I’m worried thinking that I’ll be very far from my mom n dad and my frens. But can’t help it. Kuch paane ke liye kuch khona to padta hi hai.

Delhi was real fun and let’s see what Mumbai offers me. I know this post is getting really boring so I should quit.....but Delhi rocks !!!

Kahani khatam, feeling sad but finally engineers....

So again I’m writing another gloomy post. Actually today was the last official day of college for us. We had our major project ppt and after that we went to have party for mine and my classmate’s B-school admission. It was fun and I took pics with all my frens , but P went bit earlier by his fake excuses (want to kill him).

Still can’t forget those counselling days when I use to catch 4’o clock train from my city to reach here at 9 and go back by 9’o clock train in the night with dad. Then finally got BT in DCE and mom and dad came with me on first day of college and when they left mom cried, since I’m mama’s boy. Then started that chain of wonderful events which I still miss, that masti and all. In jan, 06 I came in NSIT and then started a new path to my destination with new frens, new college and new masti. Still can’t forget those parties with frens, mess’s worst food, P ke saath fights and then cold war, fest mei masti, frequent visits to DCE, then came gre and cat days with lot of hard work, hostel ke gossips, lover’s lane, hostel farewell, job party and what not. There are lot of events which I didn’t mention since I thought it’s getting boring for you.

Actually I’m really in pain since college is coming to an end because this college gave me the zeal to do work hard, to be more focussed and after all my destination. I really love this college and going to miss it very badly. And not only college but the entire fren circle of mine. I really don’t know when I will be meeting them because i’ll be in Mumbai, D in gurgaon, S in noida, H in Chennai, V in US and P in delhi. I want to keep all my frens by my side and hug them so tightly so that they can’t go. Still want to have endless gossips with them. But I think good things come to an end early. Actually once our school teacher told us that school days are the golden days and they are never repeated. But today I want to add that college days too are the golden days and will never ever be repeated. Finally, I’m proud engineer of NSIT.

I know it was really boring post as usual but was not able to stop myself to frame these gloomy thoughts into words. Will miss you DCE and NSIT....somebody please bring back my 4 golden years of life.